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In a time marked by political polarization, family gatherings during the holidays can become challenging when political differences arise. Elizabeth Dorrance Hall, an associate professor of communication at Michigan State University and director of MSU’s Family and Communication Relationships Lab, offers strategies for navigating these conversations with emotional health in mind.

Dorrance Hall suggests that individuals should first consider their goals when entering into political discussions with family. She advises reflecting on whether the aim is to change minds or maintain family harmony. If the latter is the goal, she recommends setting boundaries or avoiding contentious topics altogether. For those who choose to engage in discussions, she advises listening to understand rather than respond, considering past interactions and future relationship impacts, and accepting potential disagreements.

She also highlights the importance of acknowledging stress during the holiday season. The mental burden of post-election dynamics can make it difficult to engage fully in conversations. Dorrance Hall notes that heightened stress may lead to impulsive reactions instead of rational responses. Sharing personal experiences with others can help alleviate some pressure and foster more meaningful connections.

Finding common ground through shared experiences is another approach Dorrance Hall suggests for bridging differences within families. Long-standing relationships provide opportunities for reconnection through reminiscing about collective memories.

Listening actively and validating others' feelings are essential components of maintaining healthy family relationships, according to Dorrance Hall. She emphasizes that dismissing differing viewpoints undermines trust and respect needed for tough conversations.

Finally, identifying an ally within the family—someone who shares similar beliefs—can provide support during potentially isolating moments at family gatherings. This connection can ease emotional stress and contribute to a more supportive environment.